[38M/5'10"/210] About 25lbs difference here, down 30 or so total. Mostly just dieting, but some treadmill use and being more active outdoors too. Want to lose 20-25 more to get where I want to be. I've noticed some 'gains' to go with the loss too!
Hopefully By Then, I Will Be In A Position Where I Can Be More Open About BDSM. Kind Of Like How Hugh Heffner Is Able To Date Multiple Women At Once And No One Cared Because It Hugh. I Want That With Regards To BDSM.