Ukemi = bottom: the verb ukeru means to "take, receive, accept," thus uke (receiving) mi (body, party) means "one who receives," or, "a bottom." Neko = bottom: neko literally means "cat". It has exactly the same meaning as ukemi, but in a slangier way.
How do you tell the difference between sadomasochism and abuse? I mean because isn't being a sadist abusing (?) but in a good way. I'm sorry if this is a stupid question I'm just confused.
Ukemi = bottom: the verb ukeru means to "take, receive, accept," thus uke (receiving) mi (body, party) means "one who receives," or, "a bottom." Neko = bottom: neko literally means "cat". It has exactly the same meaning as ukemi, but in a slangier way.